If you won’t be attending a graduation ceremony this year, What now? is the book for you: the perfect commencement address sans the harsh sun, the uncomfortable chairs, or the awkward small talk with the other parents. And if you are on graduation duty, I bet the speeches won’t be as good as this one. Without spoiling the fun, there’s a wonderful story about baking at the very beginning…
My only gripe is about the graphics. The “book” is really quite short so the editor found it necessary to intersperse a plethora of photos and drawings of paths, mazes, and other heavy-handed imagery about choices all throughout the book. One would be wonderful (like the cover); such a large number is intrusive and annoying.
P.S. An especially nice treat for Ann Patchett’s fans.
I happened to read The Ten-Year Nap right after the dreary Opting In and I could not help but notice how an entertaining, if mindless novel can make a much better point than a serious expose on the very same topic. The women of The Ten-Year Nap have, for the most part, left high-powered careers (sometimes rather improbably high-powered) to take care of their precious 4th graders, all attending a posh private school in New York City. One of the rare moms who is still working (albeit with a seriously light schedule) is having an affair: bad working mom (she gets her comeuppance, no worries!) And by the end of the book many moms have started working again, liberating their finances, themselves, and perhaps their children of their overtight embraces.
I’d vote this to be a great beach book. Won’t stretch the brain too much but fun and entertaining.
Opting In has a wonderful title: written in response to the insidious “opt-out” movement through which educated women are supposedly dropping careers for babies, it aims at describing how feminists relate to families and children.
In fact, it’s a very awkward book: half personal anecdotes about her children, her non-husband partner, and her role as the main wage-earner (all fairly non-remarkable) and half angst about how can she ever keep her head high when she chose not to give birth at home, her sons prefer trucks to dolls, and other faux pas. I thought feminism was about liberation and not automatically judging other women by the standards of the day, or our own. Did we just change the standards to home births, not staying home with the kids, and giving dolls to boys? What kind of liberation is that?
Death Benefits is written by a psychologist and claims to describe how losing a parent can be an inspiration for making positive changes. In fact, it’s more a self-reflection of how the author felt liberated by her mother’s death and was finally able to come to term with the patently unjust fact that she did not inherit her mother’s great legs. For crying out loud! Where is it written that our parents’ assets simply must be passed on to us? And how could a psychologist not be able to come to terms with this difficult situation before her mother’s death?
Find something else to read.
Beautiful Boy describes every parent’s nightmare: the addicted kid (to meth, of all possible horrible choices!) The author is a journalist and tries to tell the story from an impartial, outside perspective – but his anguish pokes through the surface. He seems very convinced that his divorce from the boy’s mother created all the problems, although his second wife seems to have a wonderful relationship with his son. It seems to me that the divorce was much less important than other unwise decisions, like smoking a joint with his son for instance. But the story is not about blame: it’s about the pain of seeing a child just slip away, again and again.
A Fraction of the Whole is a grandiose saga of the Dean family, starting and ending in Australia but ranging to Paris and Thailand with unprobable situations every few pages but anchored in the outsized and definitely out-of-the-norm personalities of the narrator’s father and uncle. I thought the first part (based in Australia) was brilliant. The second part (based in Paris) seemed more forced, and he got a few details wrong. The last part, back in Australia with a little Thailand detour, is also pretty good so don’t get discouraged in the middle. It is a very long book.
A wonderful vacation book: you’ll want to read it in long installments so you can stay with the complicated story.
Hullaballo in the Guava Orchard is a goofy comedy built around a failed post office clerk who climbs into a tree and unexpectedly becomes a revered holy man. There’s a gallery of funny characters and glimpses of the corrupt Indian civil service (the postmaster uses his clerks to prepare for this daughter’s wedding, for instance) but nothing of much substance. Much lighter and easier to read than her Inheritance of Loss. Kind of a Carl Hiaasen in India (but without the fun ending.)