My mother was a genius. And her mom as well. They knew that children function better with consistent sleep. They knew that empty praise makes kids suspicious, while heartfelt, suitably rare praise fills them with pride. They made it clear that telling the truth was always much more important than the original misbehavior. They counseled [...]
Posts Tagged as ‘children’
December 29, 2008
Tomato Girl by Jayne Pupek
Within the space of this novel the 11-year old narrator of Tomato Girl has to contend with a mentally-ill mother, an adulterous father, a dead chick, a resurrected chick (different chick), incest, a miscarriage (not hers but witnessed and assisted by her), epilepsy (again, not hers), and many more minor mishaps. That’s a little much for [...]
December 1, 2008
An Exact Replica of a Figment of my Imagination by Elizabeth McCracken
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination is a memoir about having a stillborn baby, and it improbably opens with a hilarious misunderstanding, in a French hospital since the parents lived there at the time, of why one may want to speak with a dwarf after suffering such a loss. Ah, the perils of [...]
November 28, 2008
The Good Thief by Hannah Tinti
What an odd book! The Good Thief is a Dickens-like novel written by a contemporary author. Set in New England during colonial times, it describes the fantastic life of Ren, an orphan missing a hand who is growing up in a Catholic orphanage and is claimed unexpectedly by a man who says he’s his brother but [...]
October 27, 2008
Forward from Here by Reeve Lindbergh
Forward from Here is a mix of memoir and essays on being “young in old age”, which for the author means turning 60. It also brings the last high school graduation in the family, a brain tumor (yikes!), turtles, and hot tubs that don’t fit into the front door. Reeve Lindbergh is one of Charles Lindbergh’s [...]
September 3, 2008
Too Much of a Good Thing by Dan Kindlon
Too Much of a Good Thing addresses the gnawing anxiety of comfortable parents, that amongst the riches that surround our children we may be missing the boat on other, more important ingredients of education so our children may end up adrift rather than successful.
Drawing on a survey of teens and their parents as well as [...]
June 1, 2008
Beautiful Boy by David Scheff
Beautiful Boy describes every parent’s nightmare: the addicted kid (to meth, of all possible horrible choices!) The author is a journalist and tries to tell the story from an impartial, outside perspective – but his anguish pokes through the surface. He seems very convinced that his divorce from the boy’s mother created all the problems, [...]
April 4, 2008
Mister Pip by Lloyd Jones
WIth a wonderful, dreamy start on a remote island in the midst of civil war where the children are entranced by their (volunteer) teacher’s reading of Dicken’s Great Expectations, Mister Pip dead-ends into a forgettable ending, but the first 100 pages are a wonderful escape into a far-away world. I imagine it’s even better if [...]
March 3, 2008
My Lobotomy by Howard Dully
I read My Lobotomy several months ago but, having heard a radio program featuring the author, I thought I would share this disturbing and awkward book. My Lobotomy is the story of how an exasperating but profoundly normal kid clashed with his rigid stepmother and ended up lobotomized by an unscrupulous doctor without his father’s [...]